Introduction
This season, AYSO Region 138 is holding its very first Silent Saturday, joining a long-standing tradition practiced by other AYSO regions across the country. This will be observed only by our 10U, 12U, and JH/HS divisions. On May 2, 2026, coaches, parents, and spectators will step back, stay quiet, and let the players run the show. No sideline coaching. No yelling instructions. Just soccer.
Regions nationwide have been doing this for over a decade with overwhelmingly positive results. We're excited to try it here in Brigham City.
This isn't about restricting your enthusiasm. It's about giving your kids something rare: the chance to think, communicate, and make decisions completely on their own.
Jill Ellis, the only coach in history to win back-to-back Women's World Cups, put it plainly: "We have, at the youth level, far too much over-coaching from the sidelines when players should be learning to make their own decisions." Silent Saturday is one day where we try something different.
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What Is Allowed and What Is Not Allowed
Here's a quick reference for everyone at the field:
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Allowed
- Clapping
- Signs, banners, and posters
- Rally towels and pom-poms
- Coaches talking to players before the game
- Coaches talking to players at halftime
- Coaches quietly talking to players on the bench
- Players talking to each other on the field
๐ซ Not Allowed
- Verbal cheering or shouting
- Coaching instructions from the sideline
- Comments directed at players, coaches, or referees
- Noisemakers: horns, whistles, cowbells, or air horns
- Coaches directing players on the field during play
- Using bench players as a relay for coaching instructions
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๐ก Why Does It Work?
When adults go quiet, something interesting happens: the kids get loud. They call for the ball. They organize themselves. They figure it out. You'll hear your players in a whole new way.
Games can get noisy enough that players genuinely struggle to hear each other on the field. One quiet Saturday can be a real eye-opener for coaches and parents alike. And that perspective has a way of carrying over into the rest of the season.
Here's another way to think about it: if you were in the middle of a task at work, would it help to have someone shouting at you about every decision? Of course not. So why do we accept that on a soccer field? Players learn the game by making their own decisions, trying things, and yes, making mistakes. When we're constantly directing them, we take that away.
Want to understand the heart behind Silent Saturday? Watch this segment where Scott Gimple, Director of Player Development for AYSO, appeared on the Hallmark Channel's "Home & Family" to talk about positive sideline behavior and Silent Saturday.
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๐ For Spectators
- No verbal cheering or comments of any kind while at the field. This includes instructions, encouragement, and commentary directed at players, coaches, or referees.
- Clapping is always welcome and encouraged.
- Get creative: bring signs, rally towels, or pom-poms to show your support.
- No noisemakers of any kind: no horns, whistles, cowbells, or air horns.
If someone near you on the sideline is cheering or coaching verbally, please give them a friendly, polite reminder that today is Silent Saturday. We're all in this together.
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๐งข For Coaches
Coaches are expected to fully understand the purpose of Silent Saturday and to communicate it clearly to their players and families before game day, at practice.
- Before the game and at halftime: coach as normal.
- During play: stay silent. No verbal or non-verbal direction to players on the field.
- On the bench: you may quietly talk to players waiting to sub in, but do not use them as a relay to deliver instructions to the field. That defeats the purpose.
- Use the game to observe. Take notes. You will likely notice things about your team you've never seen before. Save your coaching points for halftime and the next practice.
- Each coach is responsible for managing their own sideline. If a parent on your side is struggling to stay quiet, step over and give them a kind reminder.
๐ก Tip from coaches who've done this: Bring a chair and sit down. Being loud while sitting is a lot harder than while standing. Bring a notepad. You'll be surprised how much you see when you're not talking.
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โฝ For Players
You are encouraged to talk to each other as much as you want. Call for the ball. Tell your teammate to spread out. Celebrate a good play. Organize yourselves. This is your game, and today more than ever, your voice on the field matters.
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๐ก A Note on Referees
Managing the sideline is primarily the coach's responsibility, not the referee's. If conduct becomes a repeated issue during the game, referees may pause play to issue a warning.
One Saturday. Let them play. ๐คซ
Thank you for supporting your players and helping us make this a great experience for everyone in Brigham City.
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